Thank you for allowing me to conduct this reading for you.
Your question that you wanted me to answer was: you have been in a relationship for a while, but lately he has seemed distant. You have also recently found someone else that you may have feelings for.
As I have not been given consent by the others involved in this reading, I think it is only fair to look at what you are feeling towards these men as well as looking at what it is you want from them.
For this, I did a 3 card reading as set out below:
What you feel towards your current partner: The Devil
What you feel towards this new person: 6 of Pentacles
What it is that you want from them: 9 of Cups
The Devil speaks of addiction and doing things for the wrong reasons. Could it be that you are staying with this man as it is easier than moving on and possibly running into the same problems with someone else? There is also the possibility that this relationship may seem fine in his eyes and this may be something that you have to accept, as you may be expectation more than is on offer.
The 6 of Pentacles tells you that there is something new on offer and you are perhaps eager to receive it. Perhaps you have been looking for something new for som,e time and now here it is. Be careful what you accept as often things can be attached.
The 9 of Cups tells you that you are looking for satisfaction and you desire the simple things in life, like that special person to share it with.
It looks as though you may be discontent and have been looking for that initial spark that finds us at the start of a new relationship. There is an exciting new prospect, but do you really want to give up on your current relationship, or is it better to stay with the `devil you know’? You need to decide if you current relationship will suit your needs; perhaps speak to him and tell him what you feel and see where this takes you. Also, the new person may seem fine now, but is this someone that you think you would be happy to stay with? It seems you are seeking a soulmate, so you should consider if either of these men will really fit what you are looking for, as I think that is the key to finding what you truly want.
I hope this helps!